Friday, December 22, 2017

Merry Christmas To All Sex Workers!

At this time of year most of is are looking forward to taking a break from work and putting our feet up. This is the case too for most sex workers too; although of course a lot of sex workers spend most of the year with their feet and legs up in the air, but in a less relaxing way. However going home to family and friends can be stressful if they have no idea as to what you do for a living. Some of course are lucky in that they have a confidante or have been able to ‘come out' already to loved ones. Unfortunately for most sex workers this is still not the case. The stigma attached to sex work of any type is still very strong in today’s society. In some ways perhaps we are more puritanical now that in days of old.

Our society is still very patriarchal combine this with good old fashioned Judeo-Christian values and we have a melting pot of beliefs and attitudes that today as based even more on hearsay and the media so no wonder even  sex workers in Las Palmas and other party venues feel the need to hide what they do. Even to the network of friends and family who would be most able to help them through the emotional and physical problems that many sex workers face as a direct result of their line of work.

I think its fair to say that a lot of sex workers are made to feel ashamed of what they do by wider society. Actually, I am sad to admit that saying that is a cliché even now. We are not called the oldest profession for nothing! No wonder then that they often choose to hangout with other providers of sexual services and use them, as their support network. I am sure that they feel that ‘ civilians' would not understand. And they are all too often correct.

We all have our bad days and good days at work. So its entirely normal to want to share success and solve problems by chatting with friends and colleagues. Not to mention the occasional funny story that most people outside whatever industry would need to have translated for them to understand! Accountants, lawyers, plumbers, truck drivers and fishermen all have their own jargon and sense of humour. Sex workers are no different.


Unfortunately for them however I’m most cases the “ pot' of advice they have to draw upon is usually limited to a very select few and the opportunity to gain advice from people with other points of view becomes limited.. And that is where the problems, both emotional and psychological are all too often going to start. We all need a support structure, and if society insists ion keeping us outside the norm – no matter how normal we and our profession is – then, as usual, it is the sex worker that suffers. Merry Christmas to us all!  

Sunday, December 10, 2017

The Princess Bride

The Princess Bride is, without a doubt, the most perfect film ever. There is no bad scene. In fact, not even a bad line. Every actor delivers the perfect performance. It stars Cary Elwes, Robin Wright, Mandy Patinkin, Chris Sarandon, Wallace Shawn, Andre the Giant and Christopher Guest. Their careers hardly flourished afterwards, though Robin Wright has had an amazing third act to her career after returning from her years raising the children she had with Sean Penn.

It was written by William Goldman, based on his earlier novel. It stands out among all his othjer gritty works such as Marathon Man (“Is it safe?”), All The Presidents Men (“Follow The Money”) as well as Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid (“The fall will probably kill you!”). Later in his film career he wrote films with sexy escorts and abused women as key characters, such as Absolute Power (starring Clint Eastwood) and The Generals Daughter starring John Travolta. In fact it produced a great performance from Mr Travolta, which is a wonder in itself.

Films about escorts and strong women used to take only two forms back in the nineteen seventies and nineteen eighties. Rape or murder victims or drug addled blackmailers. Wow has that now changed.
Entire TV series such as The Deuce and The Girlfriend Experience, Westworld not merely have realistic and non-cliched escorts and prostitutes as major characters. They are the stars. Sympathetic, deep, interesting and profound. As well as flawed, mixed up, cruel and stupid. You know, people!


And the change has happened so fast that I have no idea when it began. There was the film of The Girlfriend Experience by Steven Soderbergh, but that did not have much impact until the TV programme came along years later. So I am not at all sure where the transition happened. But it happened all at once. And yet society has not kept up. Especially in America. Where the weirdest crap is still going on. Not a day goes by that some raid, campaign or whatever is in the news. The States is so messed up in their views toward prostitution. It is all over their TVs and movies. Porn is prolific, if not endemic. And yet it is illegal and persecuted pretty much anywhere. 

Wednesday, November 8, 2017

MANAGING AN AGENCY IN BENIDORM

Running an escort agency in Benidorm is not as easy as people who have never been n the industry would expect. Spain does not present you with the problem of legal hassle in the same way as some countries such as Ireland or the Scandinavian countries, but you do have day-to-day business issues. Marketing and sales; managing the talent; managing the operational aspects of the business.

Marketing and sales in the escort agency business basically consists of two elements; optimising Google ranking and Search Engine Ranking Position (SERP) and using AdWords, and sales via telephone and WhatsApp. Promoting the most hot and sexy escorts of 2nd-Circle Benidorm has to offer is absolutely nor enough. If nobody sees your website, having fantastic talent is pointless. Your product is only as successful as your ability to put them in front of the right clients, in the right number, at the right time. And when you get the eyeballs and generate interest, you then have to be able to convert them into business by talking to potential clients over the phone and chatting via messaging apps such as WhatsApp and Signal. So you need to combine effective search engine optimisation with the work of skilled and effective telephone receptionists.

Managing the talent is often the most challenging and problematic part of the job. It is certainly the most filled with drama and crises-driven activity. Of course, as with any business or industry, preventing crisis and drama is the sign of a well run organisation. A crisis that happens once is just happen-stance. The same crisis happening repeatedly is poor management. Escorts are no different to anyone else, they have their problems and their concerns. They have their fears and desires. And, like anyone else they have their emotional issues and varying degrees of ego, fear and paranoia. Managing all those elements effectively is the mark of a good escort agency.

The operational aspects of running an escort agency in Benidorm are really no different to managing any other business or organisation. You have to track your clients, orders and deliveries. You have to track the finances. Debts have to be paid promptly and In full. You have to make sure that you have a firm grip on your debtors and make sure that you get paid as quickly as possible and and keep your bad debts to the minimum. Of course, you are dealing with cash most of the time which is not a problem in itself. And if you are a business that acts legally and pays its taxes, the easiest thing is to get that cash paid into the banks. However, you cannot be certain that the talent is working within the tax regimen and as such they sometimes et a bit leery about paying cash into banks when an ID may be needed to make a deposit. So sometimes a little flexibility is required to make sure everything works properly.


Thursday, November 2, 2017

WHY DO MOBSTERS DATE MODELS?

Ibiza companions and also mobsters are virtually an inescapable pairing. The guys prefer to have beautiful ladies on their arms, particularly ones that they could do away with at a minutes observe with no psychological luggage or dramatization. Ibiza companions enjoy mobsters since they have accessibility to big quantities of cash money and also they want to invest it, due to the fact that there will certainly constantly be extra tomorrow. Or even if that mobster is done away with by the authorities or their competitors, there will certainly constantly be an additional along to take their location. So an escort girl who connects with mafia types is likely to have a consistent if slightly dangerous revenue stream at hand.

Truly effective mobsters and also mafiosi are extremely understated. They obviously run legit organisations as well as while they will certainly appreciate a great supper and also periodically go VIP in a club - one that they have a stake in, normally - or take place vacation to a super high end hotel in Miani, it will certainly constantly be within the noticeable capital of their above board and visible efforts. One location where they routinely as well as greatly go off the appointment however, is with the absolutely stunning escorts Ibiza can provide from agencies in Ibiza such as Allys Angels. Sex, power as well as cash are, besides, the 3 prehistoric drives for pretty much all guys. Obtain the cash and you obtain the power as well as the sex. Obtain the power and also you obtain the cash and also the sex. Obtain the sex and also, well, does the rest really matter at that moment?

Luxury as well as really effective bad guys do not make the error of crapping where they consume. So as opposed to exactly what you see on the movies and also television, the leading mobsters would certainly not desire for spending quality time with companions from their very own businesses. And also, normally, they would certainly not girls seeing them that come from their rivals. Is anything more open to danger - and also a little general piss taking - compared to an older guy captured in the process of making love with a lovely girl?

And also mobsters are at the very least as most likely to be kinky as the remainder of the populace. And also some twists that they like or have to leave may make them susceptible to mocking by their peers and competitors. Which is inappropriate and even hazardous in their company. Which suggests that the high course companion companies that are not run by or connected with mobsters have the tendency to have a good variety of them on their client lists and contacts as customers. Anonymously, naturally. At a minimum they prefer to assume so. Though the sensible ones will certainly go to the trouble of talking to the company principal and clarifying their demand for discretion as well as the repercussions of damaging it.

Thursday, March 9, 2017

SOME THOUGHTS ON SEX APPEAL



Cindy Crawford has been one of the objects of lust for men and women the world since the 1980s. She is one of the sexiest women in the world, and has been for more than three decades.

So I was very interested when she started talking in a recent interview and giving her explanation of what is sexy and how sex appeal works. "Sexy is a feeling. You can be sexy wearing your boyfriend's jeans and white shirt. I think especially as you get older, that you don't wear it on the outside."

“Sexy is a feeling...you don´t wear it on the outside.” What a wonderful way of looking at it. What you feel on the inside shows on the outside. Is that not exactly what the best actresses and models bring to their performances too? Acting does not work in a movie. Being does. Confession time here, by the way. I am forced to concede that it took me a little while to think about her quote and I found it tricky to concentrate with the image in my head of Cindy Crawford in boyfriend jeans and a white shirt...



Jacqueline Bisset was quoted as saying something along the lines of “the easiest way to be sexy is to love sex”. Hard to dispute! And Ms Crawford seems to support exactly the same lesson and thought. I am not sure just how easy the point is for the average "civilian" to really work with. It misses the crucial first stage of coming to feel sexy. And even if they did, no amount of internal glow would turn them into Cindy Crawford. But they might be a sexier version and happeir version of themselves; and that is not a bad place to start. I am quite sure that their lovers would respond favourably too!

One thing I am absolutely certain of is then in my work and experience marketing and promoting highest-class escorts Marbellaoffers for escort agencies in Marbella and the Costa Del  Sol like 2nd Circle Escort Marbella and Marbella Beauties from The Marbella Escort Agency has shown me a simple truism about sex appeal. It has surprisingly little do do with looks and physical beauty in absolute terms.

All of the women working with agencies such as Marbella Beauties from The Marbella Escort Agency and 2nd Circle Escorts Marbella have great bodies and beautiful faces. They are all Premier League lookers! But some are breathtakingly beautiful. And others are less physically perfect but just look hotter and more sexy. Normally not because of some trick they do for the camera, but in real life too. Guess who gets the most bookings?

Sex appeal and being sexy come from actually liking sex. And even in the world of high-end professional escorts, liking sex makes a woman more popular. That might not be politically acceptable, but it is true.